I want to be a better women

How can remembering God help
me in my spiritual walk?
Nehemiah 4:14 As I looked over the situation
I called together the leaders and the people
and said to lord,who is great and
glorious and fight for your friends your
families and your home.Remember God as
the one who helps you fight and win in
life's battles. I'm so sorry for not
be there for you.My life as be hard for
me and i prayer that God take the pain
way from me.