How And What Do You Do?

A recurrent question, when meeting someone new,
is asking rhetorically:
"how do you do?"
This is more a greeting than finding how you feel.
No attention is given
to what is real.

A major inquiry, in acquaintance debut,
is asking to ascertain:
"what do you do?"
This is to classify and place in pigeonholes.
Stereotypes can confuse
people with roles.

A subtle inspection, as relationships take,
is asking to determine:
"what do you make?"
This is counting value on wealth and things with rife.
Not, did you "make a difference"
in someone's life?