The Vain Pursuit of Acceptance



We dissipate prodigious amounts of energy
In seeking validation from our fellow men
A primal urge to escape predation
From our forebears in ancient times, when

Our ancestors roamed the earth in bands
And danger lurked around every bend
But solace can be found in understanding
That rejection is an inevitable end

When we accept this as our fate
We can release our inner turmoil and strife
And in embracing our potential to look foolish
We find true power, and a meaningful life

Thus let us not waste our vitality
In the vain pursuit of acceptance, but find serenity.

About this poem

The sonnet, "The Vain Pursuit of Acceptance," is a thought-provoking exploration of the human tendency to seek validation from others, and the impact that this can have on our lives. The sonnet employs a complex vocabulary, with words such as "dissipate," "prodigious," and "predation," to create an elegant and sophisticated tone. The metaphor of our ancestors roaming the earth in bands and facing danger, serves to underscore the primal nature of the urge to seek validation from others. The poem moves from the negative effects of this pursuit to the positive effects of accepting rejection as an inevitable end. The rhyme scheme is consistent throughout the sonnet and it adds to the overall aesthetic of the poem. The final couplet delivers the key message of the poem, which is to not waste our vitality in the vain pursuit of acceptance, but to find serenity. The sonnet delivers a powerful message and skillfully uses complex vocabulary to create an elegant and sophisticated tone. 

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Written on November 04, 2017

Submitted by Mawphniang.Napoleon on January 20, 2023

Modified on March 05, 2023

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Quick analysis:

Scheme ABXB XCXC XDXD AA
Closest metre Iambic hexameter
Characters 569
Words 102
Stanzas 4
Stanza Lengths 4, 4, 4, 2

Mawphniang Napoleon

Mawphniang is a person who is always striving to live life to the fullest. He is someone who is always open to new ideas and ways of living and is unafraid to take risks in order to explore the unknown. He is passionate about life and is always looking for ways to make use of his time and energy. He has an inquisitive nature, and is always looking for answers to life's mysteries and questions. Though Mawphniang does not pretend to have all the answers, he is determined to taste life and live a simple life, without overcomplicating things. He's a person who appreciates the small moments and cherishes the little things in life. He enjoys spending time in nature, exploring the world, and connecting with people. He is a person who is always up for a new adventure and never stops learning. He is on a daily journey of self-discovery, trying to make sense of the world and his place in it. more…

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  • dougb.72572
    Your self description is very helpful and suggestive. Spend more time in nature. Let the big mountain humble and adjust the small you.

    http://naturesode.blogspot.com/
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  • dougb.72572
    Valid message about the treadmill of approval lusting. I find that the first stanza irritates with twenty dollar words that only alienate the reader. The remainder is good. Dumb down a bit and become more approachable…

    If I abandon the podium…and let the heart give forth…with words so very childlike…but pointing to True North…I will render honest service…I will catch the ears of trust…yes dear poets in the bleachers…you inspire from common dust. (douglas blair).
     
    LikeReply1 year ago

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